AR Rahman Shares Heartfelt Note on Separation from Wife Saira Banu: "We Hoped to Reach 30 Years, But..

Oscar-winning composer AR Rahman shared an emotional note following his separation from his wife, Saira Banu, after nearly three decades together. The couple, who married in 1995, announced their decision to part ways, citing significant emotional strain in their relationship.

A Fragile Chapter in Life

Taking to X (formerly Twitter), Rahman expressed his heartbreak over not reaching the milestone of 30 years together. He wrote:

“We had hoped to reach the grand thirty, but all things, it seems, carry an unseen end. Even the throne of God might tremble at the weight of broken hearts. Yet, in this shattering, we seek meaning, though the pieces may not find their place again.”

Rahman referred to this phase as a "fragile chapter" and thanked friends for their kindness and respect for the family’s privacy during this difficult time. He ended his note with the hashtag #ARRSairaaBreakup and a bouquet emoji.

A Call for Privacy

Rahman and Saira’s children—Khatija, Raheema, and Ameen—have also requested privacy during this period.

Khatija Rahman, their eldest daughter, wrote on Instagram Stories:

“I would greatly appreciate it if this matter could be treated with the utmost privacy and respect. Thank you for your consideration.”

Ameen Rahman, their son, echoed the sentiment:

“We kindly request everyone to respect our privacy during this time. Thank you for your understanding.”

The Joint Statement

The couple’s decision to separate was first announced through a statement from their lawyer, Vandana Shah, which read:

“After many years of marriage, Saira and her husband, A.R. Rahman, have made the difficult decision to separate. Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found the tensions and difficulties insurmountable, creating a gap neither party feels able to bridge at this time.”

Saira Banu initially shared the news via a personal statement, followed by the joint statement confirming the separation.

About AR Rahman and Saira Banu

AR Rahman, renowned worldwide for his iconic compositions, married Saira Banu in 1995. Over their 29 years of marriage, the couple built a family together, raising three children:

Khatija Rahman: A singer and social advocate.

Raheema Rahman: Involved in creative pursuits.

Ameen Rahman: A budding musician.

Their union was often seen as a strong and inspiring partnership, making the announcement of their separation all the more surprising to fans and well-wishers.

A Legacy of Music and Family

While the personal lives of public figures often come under intense scrutiny, Rahman’s heartfelt plea highlights the need for compassion and respect during challenging times. Despite the separation, Rahman and Saira remain united in their commitment to their children and their shared legacy.

This chapter marks a poignant moment in the life of a composer whose music has touched millions, reminding us that even those who inspire us with their art face profound personal struggles.